Sunday, September 30, 2007

First of all, I would like to ask you-- do you believe in meeting your soulmate? Or do you even believe that there is a soulmate waiting for you out there? If you don't, than I suggest that you don't waste your time. Soumates are a gift from God to everyone. From the Bible, or any other religion, one can actually see that God created one being and split them into half-- one male and one female. This can be seen in the Garden of Eden where Eve was made from the rib of Adam. It is said that these two lovers, are halves of each other. When they finally meet in life, their souls will merge and form one being. This can be seen when lovers describe each other as " The One". It is also true that once their souls merge, one is inside the other and vice versa.

So, you might ask: How do I know when I finally meet mine? well, the answer is simple. A soulmate (or soul mate) is someone whom you feel a natural and deep affinity with. Be it friendship, love, intimacy, compatibility, sexuality etc. Now, wait a minute. You might wonder what do I know about a soulmate? Dear readers, I can tell you only one phrase. "One can only know when one meets the true other half". (My own quotation of course, not something you can find elsewhere!). There are a few different types of soulmate. But I am unable to list them down here as it would be too taxing both on the reader and the blog itself! =) So here's the link if you want to learn more about soulmates: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soul_mate , http://www.soulmatereader2002.com/ or http://www.ariadnegreen.com/answers.html.

Now, back to the most interesting titbit of all! When you first meet your soulmate, you will sense a strange familiaity coming from that person. You both seem to know each other really well and both of you haven't even met before! This might seem cool to some and eerily strange to others. But the truth is, cool or not, you both will be able to click really well and know each other's good and bad points almost immediately. Both of you have a graet sense of communication. One can sense what the other is going to do even if it is not spoken! You might think what I just wrote is utter rubbish. But coming from my own experience or any other readers out there who have already experienced this phenomenon, it is very true. In some cases, lovers are able to sense each other's happiness, sorrow, pain etc. Wonderful isn't it!? Someone who can feel and understand your pain just as you would feeel his/hers.

In addition, (this is the not-so-good-news part). Sometimes in life, when one finally meet his/her soulmate, there isn't always a happy ending. Sometimes, due to certain circumstances, soulmates might get separated. This separation would cause a deep emotional impact to both parties (again, another symptom of finally meeting your soulmate. But I warn you, you wouldn't want to try this). There would be a deep emotional wound that is so great, I can't really describe what it exactly feels like even though I experienced it. Some would plunge into a deep bout of depression, despair, anguish, utter depression and might even be suicidal. They might also describe things like " my heart is torn" and crying might be described as "bleeding from the heart/soul" and the most prominent of all, permanent emptiness as they feel that his/her soul is being torn apart.

Yet again, when one finally meet his/her soulmate, there is no such thing as a fairy- tale happy ending. There might still be some degree of quarelling and the most common mistake soulmates make is to take each other for granted and expect each otrher to be "perfect". The truth is, no one is perfect. Even your soulmate. It is therefore very important to learn how to accept each other in a relationship whether or not he/she is your soulmate.

Finally, as a final note, I urge current soul lovers to love your other half as what you hope they will love you. And for those of you out there who haven't found your soulmate or am finding your soulmate, take heart! There is alway ssomeone for you. Who knows, he/she might be waiting for you right now and maybe even seraching for you too! So, do not lose hope and I wish you a wonderful journey in finding your true love/soulmate and most of all, I wish all readers LOVE. God Bless. =)

P.S. The following posts are all love poems. Enjoy and don't forget to post your comments! =)