Thursday, October 4, 2007

SOULMATES

After extensive research , analysis and laying down the facts, I have decided to rewrite my introduction on soul mates as there were some errors to what I’ve published. Now, first of all, soul mates are commonly misunderstood as a romantic partner. In actual fact, everyone has a few hundred soul mates that come from the same soul group as us and are whom they are put in this world to teach us lessons about the universe. This means that they can appear as a gambler, abuser, favourite teacher, friends, parents, boy/girlfriends etc. The main purpose for their existence is partly to teach us lessons we must learn in order to find our twin flame. Sadly, many of us are either so obstinately unconvinced that we start shutting down what the universe is trying to tell us or we simply miss the chance of finding our twin flame. Now, due to the nature of this blog, I shall limit the number of words as it does not fit the main purpose of this blog. For more information about soulmates, please feel free to visit these websites: http://www.tonyasomers.com/soul.htm and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soul_mate.

TWIN FLAMES

Coming to the essence of my blog, twin flame-soulmates, are the romantic partner that everyone dreams about consciously or sub-conciously. They are the main reason for our actions and remains as a source for our drive. Twin flame-soumates are a gift from God to everyone. From the Bible, or any other religion, one can actually see that God created one being and split them into half-- one male and one female. This can be seen in the Garden of Eden where Eve was made from the rib of Adam. It is said that these two lovers, are halves of each other.

However, not everyone is that lucky in meeting their twin flame-soulmate. In fact, most will end up marrying people who are close to their twin flames either because they think that the twin flame theory is absolutely absurd or whatnot. But than again, some lucky souls will get to marry their twin flames! This is very rare and when it does happens, they would spend a blissful lifetime together! The twin flames would be so concerned of giving the other the best that their love would reflect into their surroundings! Close friends and loved ones would be able to see that they both have a slight glowm on their faces and both will move with such unity as though they were one. Most of all, both are so close to each othet that they would never be separated, doing everything together.

So, you might ask: How do I know when I finally meet mine? Well, the answer is simple. A twin flame- soulmate is someone whom you feel a natural and deep affinity with. Someone whom you share a deep connection with. When one finally meets the other twin flame, they would be an instantaneous recognition of familiarity and they would get the feeling that they are “The One”; unless of course the person does not possess a single shred of primitive instinct!

In addition, both seem to know each other really well and both of you haven't even met before! This might seem cool to some and eerily strange to others. But the truth is, cool or not, you both will be able to click really well and know each other's good and bad points almost immediately. Both of you have a great sense of communication. One can sense what the other is going to do even if it is not spoken! You might think what I just wrote is utter rubbish. But coming from my own experience or any other readers out there who have already experienced this phenomenon, it is very true. In some cases, lovers are able to sense each other's happiness, sorrow, pain etc. Wonderful isn't it!? Someone who can feel and understand your pain just as you would feeel his/hers. For a deeper understanding of the twin flame theory, you can visit the first link in the “soulmate” section or visit these websites: http://www.soulmatereader2002.com/ or http://www.ariadnegreen.com/answers.html.

Furthermore, (this is the not-so-good-news part). Sometimes in life, when one finally meet his/her twin flame- soulmate, there isn't always a happy ending. Sometimes, due to certain circumstances (especially if both are not prepeared for the intensity of what is about to happen), soulmates might get separated. This separation would cause a deep emotional impact to both parties (again, another symptom of finally meeting your soulmate. But I warn you, you wouldn't want to try this). There would be a deep emotional wound that is so great, I can't really describe what it exactly feels like even though I experienced it. Some would plunge into a deep bout of depression, despair, anguish, utter depression and might even be suicidal. They might also describe things like " my heart is torn" and crying might be described as "bleeding from the heart/soul" and the most prominent of all, permanent emptiness as they feel that his/her soul is being torn apart.

Yet again, when one finally meet his/her soulmate, there is no such thing as a fairy- tale happy ending. There might still be some degree of quarrelling and the most common mistake soulmates make is to take each other for granted and expect each other to be "perfect". The truth is, no one is perfect. Even your soulmate. It is therefore very important to learn how to accept each other in a relationship whether or not he/she is your soulmate.

Finally, as a note to all readers, there is alway someone for you. So take heart, even if you do not find your soulmate in this lifetime. So, do not lose hope and I wish you a wonderful journey in finding your true love/soulmate. But for those of you out there who have finally found your twin flame-soulmate, I urge you all to appreciate each other as not many people have this sort of fortune! And most of all, I wish all readers LOVE. God Bless. =)

P.S. The following entries are all poems. A reminder to all readers: I am not despo! Though many of you might consider it naïve, I believe in this twin flame concept as there might be a slight chance that I’ve already met my twin flame years ago!!!